Where is your edge?  Have you considered asking yourself where the edge for you in life is?  Are you amazed by women who seem to have so many things going on in their lives all at one time and they make it all seem so easy?  Are you sitting at your PC day in and day out wondering if you have a life much less are living life on the edge?  I talk to so many individuals who have trouble finding enough hours in their day to do laundry much less, take an hour for a tennis lesson, get a massage or jog 3 miles.